Christmas Eve

Today I should be celebrating my child's first birthday. Instead I am sitting alone 18 months after our miscarriage and now separated from my wife. My Dad's cancer is advancing rapidly, one granny died this year, the other one is now struggling so badly with her memory that she often can't remember things that she has been told repeatedly with the last 5 minutes. I am effectively unemployed (my minimum wage part-time Asda delivery job doesn't even cover my mortgage).

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